Episode 47: Setting boundaries with Mormon family

This week, Cari and Kelsae discuss creating and maintaining boundaries with families, especially abusive families or families who are still involved in a cult which harms you. They talk about their own personal journeys setting boundaries with their families and all of the accompanying pitfalls and feelings. Feelings are gross but also important, or so Cari’s therapist tells her all the effing time. Also, Cari and Kelsae are soliciting your stories of your families and why they need boundaries or how boundary setting went. Please email those to us at nomanknowsmyherstory@gmail.com

Opening thought by Andrea Gibson
Closing thought by Meg

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 Kelsae's mantra, gifted to her by friend Meg many years ago.

Kelsae's mantra, gifted to her by friend Meg many years ago.

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Episode 46: The Mormon Church is transphobic and how to self-care through unsafe situations

This week, Cari and Kelsae discuss two major topics: an article in the Salt Lake Tribune this week about a trans individual who will likely be expelled from BYU for seeking top surgery and self-care in unsafe, traumatic situations. They know a little bit about that due to where they are broadcasting from this week. Listen for the full scoop!

Opening thought by rupi kaur 
Closing thought from The Perks of Being a Wallflower

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 Cari and Kelsae draw some strength and wisdom from Morticia Addams.

Cari and Kelsae draw some strength and wisdom from Morticia Addams.

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Episode 45: Cards Against Humanity, Zelph On The Shelf edition

This week, Cari and Kelsae play a version of Cards Against Humanity made by the folks behind Zelph on the Shelf. It’s silly! It’s irreverent! It’s short! Hecklers rejoice!

Opening thought by Wolf Parade 

Closing thought by Andrea Gibson 

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 How Kelsae is feeling after getting a new job.

How Kelsae is feeling after getting a new job.

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Episode 44: MOAR MORMON TROPES!

This week, Cari and Kelsae continue last week’s topic by ranting about yet more crappy Mormon tropes. Among these are fake service, “knowing,” codependency, and nonsense reasons to explain why folks apostatize. We’re excited to be doing all this yelling together again. Reunited and it feeeeeeels so goood!

Opening thought by rupi kaur

Closing thought from the Tao Te Ching

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 Stuntman learning new stunts at RollerCon!

Stuntman learning new stunts at RollerCon!

 Cari's mood post family visit. 

Cari's mood post family visit. 

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Love what we do and want to help support the show? You can join our super exclusive CLUB FUCK PACKER on Patreon by pledging $1+/mo. We just met our recent goal of $75/mo, which covers our podcast and website hosting fees, and a P.O. Box! (For super official podcast business, of course.) Our next goal will include plans to save up for nicer recording equipment. Stay tuned! 

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